Child Support payments and supporting children are a crucial Family Law expense that aims to ensure the financial well-being of children after their parents’ separation or divorce. Child Support varies by state or province or other jurisdiction. Having practiced Family Mediation for 25 years there are several primary considerations that typically pertain to Child Support for both moms and dads.

  1. The determination of Child Support is typically based on the income of both parents. This leads to disputes over the honesty of reported income, especially for self-employed individuals or those with fluctuating incomes. Ensuring transparency and fairness in income reporting is essential to establish appropriate Child Support calculations. While one or both parents may struggle with financial fears, remember, your children are scared too. They deserve honesty.
  2. Child Support calculations take into account the child(ren)’s needs, the standard of living they would have had if the parents were still together and the financial capability of each parent. Disputes may arise regarding the interpretation of these factors and their application to specific cases. When parents separate their personal expenses usually increase. There are now 2 homes, 2 utility bills and the previous family discounts (for example) on car insurance for 2 drivers ends, increasing insurance costs.  
  3. Enforcement of Child Support Court Orders can be a significant issue, particularly when parents fail to make payments. This can lead to financial difficulties for your ex-spouse and your child(ren). Efforts to enforce Child Support Orders may involve garnishing wages or other legal actions.
  4. Modifying Child Support Orders may be necessary due to changing circumstances such as changes in income or the needs of a child. Seeking a Support Order modification can be a complex and challenging process, requiring legal assistance.
  5. The emotional impact of Child Support disputes on both parents and children should not be overlooked. Conflict over Child Support can strain parent-child relationships and create additional stress during an already difficult time. Effective communication and Family Mediation can help mitigate these issues and prioritize the best interests of the child(ren).

In conclusion, Child Support is a multi-faceted issue that involves various legal, financial, and emotional considerations for both moms and dads. Seeking legal advice and support can be crucial for navigating these challenges and ensuring the well-being of all parties involved.

Please remember……

When Children Do Well, Parents Do Well

When Parents Do Well, Children Do Well